Phoksundo Trek

Travel Stories: Trek to Phoksundo Lake

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My trip day started quite strangely on the month of October back in 2018. Enclosed within a cozy room, my vision tends to get clearer and as the blurriness slowly fades away, I see a tall, bulky guy crying wholeheartedly. I try to get closer and those emotions start to haunt me. I start to feel a chill down my spine gradually radiating all over my body. His frustrations were quite transparent that I tried to console him and asked him not to do anything crazy. Deep down inside, it touched me seeing him broken. Surprisingly, I could hear the fading old car horn in my ears at a distance gradually taking its pace and louder each second. It was my alarm. Obviously, I am not able to see such clear visions in daily life. As a matter of fact, I am blind without my lenses.

The dream was weird but aren’t they always? and hey It’s my trek day. After a whole semester of monotonous assignments, projects, and all those regular thing. Something was finally exciting. I was trekking to Phoksundo, Dolpa.

Before the trek, yet, I had to finish some other business. I got ready, carried my trek bag, bid my farewell to my family, and went to my college. I had an examination to attend the very day and reach the bus station as soon as the exam was over. The exam was till 1 and I had to reach the station by 2. It was an exam in English literature and it went quite well. I and a friend of mine rushed to get a Taxi and reached the station on time.

I was going to the trek with my seniors and friends. We were 14 in total. I unhesitantly accepted the invite of one of my seniors, invited a friend, and hopped on to go see Phoksundo Lake. This is how it started. Except for the two people, 12 people were almost strangers to me. Now that I think, before the trip, I had not shared any kind of conversation with any of them except a friendly smile on the corridors of college.

So, basically, I was on a trek with many strangers. The main catch of the trek was that we might have to sacrifice not celebrating Dashain; one of the important festivals of Nepal. Our trek could take a long time and we could possibly miss the main days of Dashain. However, the fun part was we were all moving and walking with the risk of getting scolded by our family in case we missed the tika of Dashain. At least I was.

I lost touch with those two friends; Supriya and Bashistha on the very day we started walking.

Disclaimer: Do not take it literally!

They were walking with some other people and I was on my own. I was just hesitant or more like an introvert being an introvert, to walk and talk with new people. So, I started to roll alone and I do not regret it at all. It was all fun.

I am so glad it worked out that way. Had it not been that way, I would never come out of my comfort zone and would leech with those people only. By the end of the trip, all of us on the trip were entangled and made individual relationships with each other. The trip will always be a part of us. I think every one of us has lived at least once or more throughout the trip.

After the return, people asked me, ” How was it? Was the beauty of Phoksundo justifiable for the whole long trek of 10 days? Was it worth it ?”. Some people even asked me which trip was better and asked me to compare it with my previous trips. I could not reminiscent how did Phoksundo lake actually look when people asked me. We were definitely there to see the lake, but it occurred to me that I couldn’t remember it in seconds, because I guess something else mattered the most. The company, people with whom I walked, laughed with, rested with, a shared ounce of water drops with made my journey more fulfilling and it would always be wrong even after all this time i.e. after almost 2 years now, to give the credit to the beauty of Phoksundo lake alone. It was the beauty of the company.

The more I think, I remember each faces, late-night fire, Barbecue night, jokes, laughs, pulling each other’s leg, sips of local booze after a tiring day, applying oils over legs, and much more, I feel overwhelmed by all the memories and how precious it was to share and appreciate such beauty of the lake, nature, vegetation, and lifestyle with those bunch of people. “Yeah, It was totally worth it.”

I still remember a local man saying to us that there is no difference between the sky and the lake and these eyes cannot see the end of the lake or cannot fit the periphery within. The lake is the reflection of the sky and it is as blue as the sky. It was indeed as said. There are so many moments that I cannot fit exactly into their places. They are out of their positions and they come to me on random days when least expected. I sometimes allow them to dwell on me and they slowly adjust to settle in harmony in my stack of memories. The saying of the local man, the realization of what he said, and the bliss I felt while we slept by the side of the lake during the day time are some of them.

Four of us separated from the group and decided to stay back and sleep by the lake. The little ants trying to crawl upon us, bright warm sun, peaceful lake by the side, we curl up in four places in four positions like kids, loud and frequent rasp with pause by crows and just sound vicinity. It was wholesome. Like I said, I cannot fit the moments exactly, I cannot remember how we four again ended up by the side of the beach.

Disclaimer alert!

Not exactly a beach, but yeah it felt like one. We played around as if it was a beach. We played throwing stones and counting steps, made a stack of stones and played with water. It has been a long time now. I feel like that It was a part of me; not whole me. However, I would love to live it again.

I skipped a lot of talk on the climb, obstacles, plot twists and steepness as the fun overshadowed them.

Important Disclaimer: Series of Remember when

I still remember how someone felt how handsome Sahil Dai was. Likewise, Ramesh Mama’s flute game being so strong. It was so good to hear the music throughout the trek. I, Supriya, Prashant Dai, and Sushil Dai slept peacefully by the lake, obviously, that was a gem. Sushil Dai requesting the photo clicks to Babin Dai is still so vivid. While Bashistha and Shreyaj Dai always went to sleep so early, we used to have most of the fun during that time with drinks, gossips, fire, and more. Supriya’s “My bag is uncomfortable, let me drink water, let me fix my jacket ” cunning excuses to take rest are still hilarious.

Kushal Dai and Supriya talking about their school whenever they got chances were so irritating; I wanted to run away from them. How Ishan Dai, Prashant Dai, and Dhiraj Dai always woke up late, and Supriya and I learned how to roll the purple haze. How Babin Dai and Babu Dai were like serious trekkers; sleeping on time, waking up on time, managing the stay, flights, and great leaders. How it was already dusk and we were almost lost walking for hours in weed fields. Last but not the least, Suraj Dai and his Dolpali behavior is one of my favorites.

Above all, I am also really fond of the day we spent on Nepalgunj. The last day on Nepalgunj was the cherry on top of the cake. It was the no trek, rikshaw (2 or 3 wheeled vehicle) day. We had extra fun having local foods as famous Biryani, Paan (leaves of the betel plant wrapped around tobacco, fruit, etc.), Panipuri, Chaat, Sorma, and many more. Also, the time we went out at midnight, had some warm tea, watched the Ramayan Drama on our last night is still so fun to even miss. Our two other friends; Anuska and Akriti joined us in Nepalgunj and it was a fun and new experience to me.

The next day, all of us separated our ways. Few among us went home through Nepalgunj. Most of us had a flight from Nepalgunj to Kathmandu and I swear I didn’t want to come back and the trip and the people felt like home. We were lucky enough that we landed exactly a day before the main day of Dashain.

The whole trip was never about the destination alone, it was about 14 of us, how we rolled with each other from strangers to companionship, and our back and forth journey to Phoksundo. We unknowingly jointly created a pure bond with each other to meet up with each other again.

P.S. you and I are more than friends. We are a small cute travel gang. And just for the information, the big guy in my dream was my English Literature teacher.

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Our Itinerary:

Day 1 & 2: Depart from Kathmandu – Radi Bazar – Tallo Bagar (Night on the Bus)

Day 3: Tallo Bagar – Supani – Suligad – Kagani (10- 11 hrs trek)

Day 4: Kagani – Chhepka – Rachhi – Samjhana Hotel – Jharna Hotel (12 hrs trek)

Day 5: Jharna Hotel – Ringmo (4 hrs trek and reached Shey Phoksundo Lake)

Day 6: Rest Day ( Trek to viewpoint)

Day 7: Ringmo – Chhepka – kagani (11.5 hrs trek)

Day 8: Kagani – Suligad- Juphal Airport (BBQ night, 2.5 hrs trek)

Day 9: Juphal – Nepalgunj ( By Flight)

Day 10: Nepalgunj – KTM

Budget : Around Rs. 18-20 k per individual

My Bungee Jump Experience | Bungee Nepal

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Rewind to the year 2016, almost 4 years back, January 1st was the day, I felt one of the most thrilling experiences in my life. The young blood, adrenaline rushing all over and desperate decision is to be blamed which led me to the suspension bridge of The Last Resort at the very day.

Led by reckless resolution yet full of life and adventure; The Bungee jumping experience is still one of the coolest things I ever did till the date.

Too much blue over the place. eh?

Let me give you a brief detail on what you should know and then about my experience.

Things You Should Know Before you go for Bungee Jump

You can Bungee jump in Nepal in two places; The Last Resort, Bhotekoshi, and Hemja, Pokhara. The rules for the jump varies accordingly.

Some of the common tips are:

  1. People with heart disease, high blood pressure, pregnant woman, steel in the body, or any kind of ligament injury are not allowed for the jump.
  2. You are not allowed to consume alcohol before the jump.
  3. Wear comfortable clothes i.e. you can wear shorts, trousers, or any sporty attire would be better.
  4. Make sure you wear comfortable and closed-toed shoes.
  5. Make sure you enjoy the whole ride and forget about everything while jumping.

Bungee at The Last Resort, Bhotekoshi

  1. The Bungee jumping in Bhotekoshi is from above 500 ft (160 m).
  2. Your weight must be between 40 kg and 98 kg.
  3. Your age must be 18+.
  4. If you are below age 18, then your parent must sign the wavier to get a ticket for the approval to jump.
  5. The price per jump is Rs. 7500 for Nepalese nationals and $108 for foreigners. They have plenty of overnight and combo offers for various activities (Swing, Tandem, Canyoning)packages.

Note: The Bungee Jump in The Last Resort is ranked as Asia’s 3rd highest Bungee jumping site. The resort offers and hosts many other adventures besides bungee jump such as tandem, swing, canyoning, rafting, etc. Plus it is a wonderful escape from the concrete jungle and suitable for holidays and relaxation.

Bungy at Hemja, Pokhara

  1. The Bungy jumping in Hemja is from above 70 m.
  2. Your weight must be between 35 kg and 125 kg.
  3. Your age must be above 13.
  4. If your age is between 13-15, then your parent must sign the waiver to get a ticket.
  5. The price per jump is Rs. 4000 for Nepalese nationals and Rs 7500 for foreigners.

Note: It is a tower bungee. Unlike The Last Resort, it is not facilitated as a resort to relax. However, it also offers a Zip Flying activity or a Combo package of both Zip Flying and Bungee Jump.

If you happen to travel to Pokhara, there are many local operator offices all around the lakeside, you can easily book and go for it as per your choice. You can find the link to one of the operators at the end of the blog.

Both bungee jumping sites provide the videos of your jump and a T-shirt on paying some extra budget.

Before Bungee Jump

Few days before the jump day, I and my friends went to Thamel, Kathmandu, and went for The Last Resort which is located on the corner of Mandala Street of Thamel. We booked our package including two-way transportation, breakfast, and lunch. On the day of New year, we hopped into the bus accommodated by The Last Resort early at 6 am in the morning at Thamel. It was around 3 hours of ride on the bus. We were stopped by in the midway and were asked to have breakfast as well. After a few minutes, we finally reached the place and we did pass the bridge from which we would jump later.

Safety Briefing

There were many people like us who came to jump on the day of New year. We were all introduced to the staffs and we were divided into groups according to our weight. We were given brief training on how to jump properly, safety measures, time-slots, and things we were supposed to do after the jump i.e. while hanging upside down.

During Bungee Jump

I am still nostalgic about the fact that I wasn’t scared at all initially when I went for the Bungee. I was quite sure about it and frankly speaking I was the one who suggested the idea of jumping on the day of New Year to my friends. I went along with my three other friends and while we first got off from the bus and passed the bridge I sure did look down the river and to be honest I wasn’t scared or let’s say I was that confident.

After the safety training by one of the staff, we were all separated into different groups due to our weight difference. I don’t remember quite well but I feel like I was the first one to jump among my friends. So, around two to three people were only allowed to get on the bridge at a time. I was with strangers on the bridge during my round and finally, after a few minutes, it was my time to shine. Jokes apart. I was asked to sit down, the staffs were really friendly and they made sure I was prepared and safe. Our package included the video of our jump as well. The overall environment before jumping was quite cooperative and motivating.

Into the climax, I stood up there on the edge of the bridge on steel suspension, 160 m high above the river, green vegetation all around, surrounded by beautiful hills, good cold breeze, BhoteKoshi river flowing in its pace, overall a complete orgasm to the eyes.

BhoteKoshi River (Above 160 m)

But wait, I was standing there, the weight I was tied to was slowly about to pull me. The guy behind me was asking me If I was ready. Oh and I thought I was fearless, my dumb ass thought I was not scared at all; and then my heartbeat was slowly rising. Courage, adrenaline, second thoughts, and excitement. I was slowly getting driven into a different state of mind while the guy behind me was yelling the numbers 3, 2, and I couldn’t process at all.

I suddenly turned into a Pentium and I knew I had to jump on the count of 1. So, before I could think to myself that I was freaking scared; all those mixed emotions, I left the bridge. I had to do it and I doubted it but yeah I wanted to do it anyhow.

I jumped, the moment I couldn’t feel my legs on the ground. I swear my goodness I feel funny right now but I definitely yelled “mom” unconsciously. I was freaking free falling for 2 or 3 seconds now, I was bouncing up and down. It was that moment that I longed for; immense happiness, just swinging up and down. I felt relief within me, I wanted to swing more and more. It was at that moment when nothing else mattered. It was all about me and my jump. I was shouting happily and felt I was alive.

More alive, cause I didn’t die and It didn’t kill me. More alive, cause it was something new and what I always wanted to do. I felt joy cause it was within me and it was one of the beautiful experiences I craved to do in this lifetime. It was totally worth it. A swing or a tandem is still listed in my bucket list.

After a few swings of up and down, I opened the knot as I was trained and I stood upside down. I was pulled upwards and the whole experience was lovely.

The funny thing is I was the one who was the most excited and kept on saying we need to do this to my friends. And my three friends who jumped after me, they didn’t even utter a sound from their mouth when they jumped calmly. And I was the craziest yelling “mom” and the video still gives me cringe moments to recall.

I would suggest anyone who is reading this stuff right now to go and jump. Obviously don’t forget to tie your legs with rope. We often get lost in our work, relationships, school, career and they tie us down in a strong knot and we tend to forget ourselves; our individualism. Exploring things and ourselves on how we are and act when nobody’s watching is very important too. This experience was breathtaking, I discovered my courage and agitation. It made me one step closer to myself. I hope you choose to experience it too. Both the jump and self-discovery.

Overall, I am really glad I did what I wanted to do with the best set of people. I wouldn’t negotiate with those mixed emotions; both excitement and nervousness, pick any other people to do it with, the New year’s plan if I had to do it any other time. The whole plan was delightful, the experience was breathtaking and everything was as it should have. I am just grateful for the whole thing I experienced.

Yeah, if you are wondering about the food as I often do. We had our lunch in the resort as per our package. We got back at Thamel again by bus and actually thought about eating again. However, the restaurant we wanted to visit was closed after 8:30 pm. We stuffed ourselves with some sandwiches and the day went just right.

There are many packages offers for bungee, canyon swing, tandem swing, and many more. If you guys wish to do any one of these, you could get your info on The last resort’s official website. Similarly, for Pokhara Bungee Jump, you can get your information at Highground Nepal.

First Trek: Annapurna Base Camp Trek (ABC)

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If I recall my ABC trek (4130m) and how it all started, I find my younger cousin brother and I talking to each other on the terrace with the sun almost set. I don’t know what was it exactly, but we both were at the phase where we often wondered about life choices, existential crisis, those conversations on the misery of human life, our sole existence, and the meaning of life. I know we all have been there. It’s just that I had some companionship with my brother to share it with.

The bonding and likeness of our perception at that moment led us to ABC. While we lied to our family on having a huge number of friends trekking with us, we two booked the bus to Pokhara, packed our bags overnight with lots of food and few clothes, we headed to Jamal the next morning and to Pokhara from Kathmandu.

Well, it was my first ever trek. However, I don’t remember if we were really scared or excited or afraid to be out there by ourselves. Just like that, I keep on forgetting some beautiful feelings right there even today. We took a taxi till Nayapul and separated with Pink, a friendly foreigner who was on the same bus as us to Pokhara. We separated with Pink and while separating he taught us how to carry the trekking bag properly so that it wouldn’t burden the carrier. Thanks for the hack Pink taught us; I often remember him and fix my bag every time I start my trek.

The first day of the trek was spent with the thought that we might not be able to make it to the destination of the first day. We went up along Ghandruk and had our lunch and came down to Landruk and trekked for Jhinu. Moving straight towards Jhinu would be a better idea now that I think about it. However, at the end of the day, there were no regrets and we got to see the Machhapuchhre.

Slowly, days were passing where we walked whole day from early in the morning at 6 or 7 with breakfast on, training our mind over matter to climb the never-ending stairs, greeting foreigners frequently, having conversations with foreign trekkers on various topics along the way, taking small breaks to fill the water bottle and sipping those chilled natural water, and reaching the hotel by evening to sit in those living room filled with trekkers and guides where we casually broke the awkward silence and furthermore start talking about further roads, experiences, hometown and some guides talking about how picky their guests are in the native language.

I just think there is so much beauty in traveling. I have had met my perfect strangers almost every time I travel. I think everything around us teaches us something; sometimes those things give us back our long-lost feelings, sometimes it’s wider sense to our existing perception and sometimes it’s growth in us to be OK with not understanding ourselves. Tony, Tam ho, a middle aged man was a Vietnamese tourist who was climbing to get to ABC as well. We were walking alongside each other, sometimes getting on the front and sometimes on the back of each other. We didn’t talk much. However, I don’t know when we got closer as I said, we often forget the feelings and events. The next time I remember we were clicking pictures of each other, taking turns.

Tony being my perfect Stranger for the trip was a helpful man. We don’t see such compassion in everyday life. At least I don’t. He was such an angel. I don’t know if he is always that way or the traveling allowed him to define himself in every new possible way. We conversed about Vietnamese history, his love life and I too talked about Nepal.

This trek or any travel journey I have made so far has changed or created a part of me and it will relate to Tony in one way or other and I will forever embrace it. I learned that kindness could always be offered even if you lack all the materialistic things. My perfect stranger taught me that.

Travelling makes you meet people for a shorter time with beautiful memories. Had we been there for more days, maybe our ego would clash, maybe our disagreements could lead to severe discussions or many things. I am always up for the discussion as long as we finally come to a mutual agreement with either side’s ego clashing into dust. However, it always doesn’t work smoothly. I like the way the trip is planned; where we are not allowed to cling to attachments and getting into a real normal life with bittersweet memories is the best part. Shorter and Sweeter. If you have ever traveled, don’t ask me why traveling? You know it, ask me my opinions and my experiences about it. It gives exposure and allows us to grasp the lessons that we miss while living in the monotonous school to work or work to home life.

You just slowly start to realize that when you are out there on the road, you get to decide who you are. Once again, free from all the bonds, things you learned, things they taught, things programmed in your mind, the idea of how life should be, how you should act, you get to break free from the perceptions of people around you and most importantly from the perception of you to yourself.

To break free from own perception is rather calming to me cause most of us lie to ourselves and expect ourselves to be someone else all the time.

I was not typical “me” anymore when I was on the trip. I didn’t care if I was bold enough or was I in my lane of mannerism nor did I care anymore if my bra strap was showing. I cared no more if anyone was looking at my tight leggings or I didn’t want myself to be that straight face strong individual or feel uneasy about anything, unlike my normal life. The “Be yourself zone” started. The real me, the sometimes pretty and most times ugly, the truth folded; the ego in me was reflected, again and again, I could realize how badly a person can tend to be pessimistic yeah that was me, I could see my temper when I would swear at those mountains for laying so high up above. I could see the real me and it felt good to know myself closely. That’s the beauty of traveling or is it just me!

We think “beauty” is the comfort, the easiness, the view, the perfect pictures, the things we could take back home. I don’t know if I am just a deep emotional but traveling gives another layer of meaning to my life.The self-reflection process, the greed, the ego, you see yourself in it and you accept it and you know what makes you “you”, how far you can push yourself, the hunger, the rarity, the lack, the “I am almost there” breathe and my favorite thing; walking quietly just with my head speaking to itself. I lose and find myself every time I trek.

I have learned two main things since the first trek:

I am nothing and I am everything.

Some things make me forget what I am. I am nothing and nothing makes sense here. I just enjoy what is given to me right now. The huge hills, the depth of the land where I stand, the clear streams, the beautiful vegetation even in the most inappropriate lands, the mountains, the climb, little bit of sickness, and starry nights. None of these things included me. They exist even without me, they don’t need me to celebrate their beauty, they don’t require audiences to bloom. Who am I even? Are my problems really bigger than the whole thing going on in this universe? And all these beautiful things exist and I thought I was important? I realized I am nothing.

And slowly, I realized I am everything. All these things in my world can only make sense if I exist. I had the ultimate power to either choose between suffering or living my life on my own terms. I could stop pushing and abusing myself to be anything and everything things outside me asked for. I did not have to make sense to anyone else but me.I became free from the obligations I had created in my mind.





We are so driven in our life influenced by social media, people around us, and things we have to do just because everyone is doing. Some of us have changed ourselves due to the circumstances. We either fall into the group of people who do things under influence of people around them or managing to come up above that and do things completely opposing the mainstream and fall back into the same category cause we doing either to follow or to completely oppose cause we hate the fact that we are following or we all are same. And barely a few of us are doing it for ourselves, for our passion, for our strong opinions and strong feelings.

We are allowed to give power to things, thoughts, memories, and people in our lives. That’s when I realized I am everything. Everything in my head and my world; I don’t know about your world but my world, my perception is under my power and my consciousness.

It felt like a family reunion when I saw all the foreigners we have been stumbling upon since the last few days were all gathered together. It was my very first trek but I felt home in the living room of the hotel. No discomfort, no uneasiness, easy smiles, constant greet, no internet, no virtual connection and smooth conversation. The room was warm both with the vibes and temperature. I don’t know who they were, why they came, what’s their stories but definitely, it was such a happy place for me, must be everybody wanted to break free as me. Half of the people shouting at each other playing cards followed by laughter and teasing, few talking about other treks and history, some having their dinner and two of them talking about pickle rick and laughing out loud; yeah that was my cousin and a foreigner,and one or two reading book quietly in the corner.

I know It’s broken but beautiful

This was home for me until the night came and I couldn’t breathe. I was going breathless, trying my best to distract myself by reading a book with a clove of garlic in my one cheek. My heart beating faster and my head starting to feel dizzy. My cousin had the same thing going on and he went to the living room to get the water. When he came back, he ran hurriedly and asked me to come out faster. It was just about to get midnight. Guess what I acknowledged?

Once I stepped outside the room, we were surrounded by mountains; the white twinkling mountains at midnight. The full moon and millions of stars, surrounded by Annapurna range on the North and Machhapuchre on South. I could play the self-reflection journey, closeness with strangers in spite being an introvert, coming out of my comfort zone, celebrating every view and feeling things I had missed for so long in front of my eyes. It was perfect to sit under the stars in blankets and admire the beauty. No lens could ever do justice to what we see with eyes, nothing could capture what I saw back then unless you have very expensive lenses or some sick photo skills. I am not blessed with both. Obviously, I tried to click the pictures of the million stars and Annapurna standing right in front of me and all I got was a blank black. I know most of you have tried that on starry nights.

The morning sight to Annapurna was similar. This trip couldn’t get any better. It was one of the best trips I have ever had with exposure to people with different perceptions and representations. I was more with myself and I got out of all the confusion I was ever in. More like, I did not care about things I was confused with anymore.

Similarly, my cousin was in his own zone, vibing with Daniel; the Rick and Morty enthusiast and other trekkers/guides and I were on my own. Might come off as offending to readers with whom I have gone trekking with but got to give this one the best one so far where I got to know myself and I felt like I was traveling alone. But yeah, all the other trips might come off as different but I have my own streams of memories attached to every trip and I am thankful I made it those places.

I still think about the time when I and my cousin shared conversations on the terrace. I find it very goofy and funny now that I have grown out of it but cheers to that at least we made a trip together and it came out as perfectly as it could be.

It was all about my experiences up above. The itinerary for the ABC trip is

First Day: Kathmandu to Pokhara

Second Day: Pokhara to Ghandruk to Jhinu to Chomrong – 7 am till 5:30 pm

Third Day: Chomrong to Sinuhwa to Bamboo to Dovan to Himalayan -7 am to pm

Fourth Day: Himalayan to Deurali to MBC to ABC-7 am to 1 pm

Fifth Day: ABC to Jhinu 7am – 6pm (This was the hardest as We have to climb a lot to reach Chomrong. I would recommend you to take shelter in between if you have more holidays.)

Sixth Day: Jhinu to Pokhara – 7 am to 12 noon

Seventh Day: Pokhara to KTM

We spent around Rs. 20k each with lots of food packed in our bags.